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My friend's husband won’t let her visit any friends or family. He has made her stop all contact with them unless it’s on the phone or computer. He reads and censors her comments on social media. He makes her feel like she's going crazy for thinking he’s controlling, and that she is being ungrateful. (After all, he’s only doing this because of how much he cares about her.)
He doesn’t want her going to the gym anymore, so she doesn’t go. He also doesn’t let her go to work anymore (he told her to only rely on him for income and that he will take care of her).
She's not really allowed to go out anymore, unless it’s for necessities, and when she does, he makes sure to have people guilt trip her about it and shame her for it.
He wants her to have this medical procedure done and tells her that if she does it, he will allow her more freedoms.
He constantly says he's only doing all of this because he cares... he is just doing it for her own good.
Oh wait....did I say husband? I meant the government.
My bad.
Y'all are outraged if a person does this to their spouse, but are passive and compliant when it comes to our government.
Listen and start asking questions.
Turn off your TV and use your brain‼️
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And to think I actually know a woman this happened to. I still get angry thinking about her. I wonder how her husband feels now, knowing the government is doing to him what he has done to her.
I'm with a woman that this kind of thing happened to. It has taken years to release her from the programming. She's pretty good now but, on occasion, will say or do something that is from her past.
God bless her and you for sticking beside her. A little love and patience goes a long way.
Thank you!!!
Yes, have patience- you'll end up being punished (by accident) for shit you had no hand in.
It's difficult for sure, and no lie no matter how tiny you might think it is, or that you're protecting them somehow, is worth the havoc it creates in them ❤️
Patience, kindness & honesty, it's good practice for all of us for what we are about to go through.
Now let's hold hands and move forward into the beautiful unknown ❤️
I am not sure that guy realises how equally bad the government is being to him. The problem with these morons is that it’s their privilege to do what they want no matter how bad it hurts others.
And then they have the gall to say they love their wives.
They only love the utility of their wives. only while she is useful. The day the husband decides they are somehow in his way or no longer supporting his way of doing things the destruction will begin.
I had a guy call me a feminist nazi because I WON"T let me husband RULE over me! Because we share all the responsibilities of our marriage that means I wear the pants and my husband is PW'd. He thought that was pretty funny. Man, there are times I wish he was, like having to go out in the snow and shovel out my own car. He would do it if I asked but I'm just as Capable as he is.
You go girl.
That would not work with my wife. Early in our marriage I made the mistake of raising my hand to her. She started speaking in tongues, and pounced on me like a wildcat.
My wife said, when we got married, that I would never strike her. She said I have to sleep sometime, and she has a cast iron frying pan. :)
lol, and no doubt you saw she was not kidding.
A man told me he had a friend that did something to tick his wife off. She tied the corners of the sheet up around him while he was sleeping and beat him with a broom stick.
😂🤣😆
I'd say she taught you real quick.
Like with ever cure there is a + and a -. You have to decide if the benefit is worth the pain. And once you decide, quite belly-aching about the option you chose, and live with it.
I'm sure he can't see the correlation.
I doubt he has the self-awareness