You did have a choice. See the part where you said 'bad host' and 'ruined your family's day'? That was the alternative. You didn't choose it. You chose. That's a choice. You chose to wear the mask. Nobody forces anyone to wear a mask, they offer a choice; often in the form of an ultimatum. An ultimatum is an evil, an attack on your free will - but it cannot remove your free will; and you aren't absolved of your own choice. That's a free fact check. I really clicked in from the title to ask if you made sure they didn't take you to a gloryhole on accident.
You did have a choice. See the part where you said 'bad host' and 'ruined your family's day'? That was the alternative. You didn't choose it. You chose. That's a choice. You chose to wear the mask. Nobody forces anyone to wear a mask, they offer a choice; often in the form of an ultimatum. An ultimatum is an evil, an attack on your free will - but it cannot remove your free will; and you aren't absolved of your own choice. That's a free fact check. I really clicked in from the title to ask if you made sure they didn't take you to a gloryhole on accident.
I've never heard "buff" used as a noun. "In the buff" means naked.
In Britain the stretchy "neck sock" is called a "snood".