You are correct, but so are the other commenters. So many people who were abused as children end up caught in an endless cycle, a Stockholm Syndrome of sorts. Look at what comes out in these trials and such. Many of them become recruiters for traffickers and such. This pertains not only to sexual abuse, but abuse in general. I've worked with abused kids as a teacher. Several years back I worked at a school for neglected/unwanted/abused children. Some of them become bullies. Others will try to provoke you into anger because that way they get your attention. Unfortunately, having an adult/parent figure getting angry at them is the only love they know, and their concept of love is warped and broken.