Yep, it’s a symptom. Exactly. Porn is the response of men (and many women) not getting what they need from their spouse. Porn came about as an answer to a missing piece, and feminism was what caused that piece to go missing
geez, can't one have a very happy and healthy marriage with kids and just have a frequent urge that is assisted by a video? my wife loves me and having sex with me but she can't jump to everytime I'm worked up. once upon a time i had to remember the hot girl a saw walking around the mall, or watch Gilligan's Island or snag the Frederick's catalog. was all this evil too? without a strong libido we are much less likely to reproduce. there's a reason we're not all priests and nuns
I agree with you to a degree. A big part of this is also learning and exploration. As a Christian, I know the church has done more harm than good in promoting a strong and healthy sex life within a marriage. Couples have to learn and experiment, and there is some big value in essentially having someone “teach” you new things, which porn can do. How else can you learn from watching what others are doing? Go to a live sex show?? Lol
I've come to realize the best sex life in marriage. Sex prowess is irrelevant to 90% of Christian women. Love a woman truly and completely. And that means that she's not your cum rag if she doesn't want to have sex .... try making love ... making love should take about 3 min of penetration. You shouldn't need oral. You shouldn't require anal. Love her. The way you want your daughter loved.
That post nut clarity should dissolve the demons away
Daughters grow up. They become women, and those women have different needs and desires from when they were children. Sure they want love, but they also want passion, they want fun, they want thrill and excitement. 3 min love pumps are not going to cut it long term.
You're such a horny fucker you can't wait? You're so animalistic that you cannot contain yourself? You cannot wait? You cannot have restraint? You just have to HAVE TO cum?
I write this as a divorcee having fallen for the trap.
you seem to be very jaded. what do i need to wait for ? what trap? it's of no harm to my wife. she's well aware and we live a life that involves pure honesty about everything which i believe would cure many if not all of the world's problems
You do not understand the power of the dark side. Some things dig in deep ..... the power exchange and dynamic was unlike anything else. It fueled my decline.
Anything inside of bondage n discipline, domination n submission, sadism n masochism and exhibitionism n voyeurism is from the devil. It's like trying heroin inside of marriage .... it's safe. No it's not. Not at all. I speak from experience not from a place of ignorance
Porn existed before feminism. There was plenty of 19th century snuff literature for the fellas. And brothels have been in existence since forever. Besides if feminism were the real issue then why do so many men in traditional churches with submissive wives who put out still looking at porn? Reality is they don’t love their wives and are cheaters at heart. Ditto with women looking at porn.
Nahhh there has never been an abundance of pornography in all of history like what we have now. It has increased with the decline of society, but porn is not the problem. Neither is the “cheating men” who don’t “love their wives” lol.
Glad you have a nice husband and/or father. My “Christian” father was a porn addict who lied to my mom about himself to entrap her in marriage thinking marrying would solve his porn addiction. It did not. He was a faithless cheater his whole life. Escalated to real affairs with women and I swear he was seeing prostitutes. So yes from my life experience where my mom was definitely NOT a feminist, my father had zero excuse. As another poster said here, it’s about instant gratification, no matter who gets hurt. Supreme selfishness is at work.
And for those of you here justifying your porn addictions here, why don’t you just cut to the chase and visit a brothel for the real thing? You might as well. It’s no different. Those are human beings you’re objectifying made in God’s image.
I can only imagine how screwed up someone would have to be to want to be a porn star. You should be helping these women and men out of these “careers” by sharing Jesus, not using them up more.
The antidote to pornography is life of prayer and yearning to return to days of innocence. When we were young and the world was full of hope and the person you do that w you should cherish to the marrow of their bones.
All the godless whores in the world can't touch what it means to love and be loved by the same and for the rest of this life.
Sounds like your mom destroyed your opinion of your dad by saying he had an addiction. I wonder, did she tell you how good she was in bed? Or did she just feel that it was justified to share only his flaws and private information. Sounds like she raised you to be a man hater after all, sad 🤔
Edit: Ahh a handshake account. Where did you come from to get here little handshake? Why don’t you head back to your safe space where your emotional rants make people feel guilty. Cause it’s not here
Yep, it’s a symptom. Exactly. Porn is the response of men (and many women) not getting what they need from their spouse. Porn came about as an answer to a missing piece, and feminism was what caused that piece to go missing
geez, can't one have a very happy and healthy marriage with kids and just have a frequent urge that is assisted by a video? my wife loves me and having sex with me but she can't jump to everytime I'm worked up. once upon a time i had to remember the hot girl a saw walking around the mall, or watch Gilligan's Island or snag the Frederick's catalog. was all this evil too? without a strong libido we are much less likely to reproduce. there's a reason we're not all priests and nuns
I agree with you to a degree. A big part of this is also learning and exploration. As a Christian, I know the church has done more harm than good in promoting a strong and healthy sex life within a marriage. Couples have to learn and experiment, and there is some big value in essentially having someone “teach” you new things, which porn can do. How else can you learn from watching what others are doing? Go to a live sex show?? Lol
I've come to realize the best sex life in marriage. Sex prowess is irrelevant to 90% of Christian women. Love a woman truly and completely. And that means that she's not your cum rag if she doesn't want to have sex .... try making love ... making love should take about 3 min of penetration. You shouldn't need oral. You shouldn't require anal. Love her. The way you want your daughter loved.
That post nut clarity should dissolve the demons away
Daughters grow up. They become women, and those women have different needs and desires from when they were children. Sure they want love, but they also want passion, they want fun, they want thrill and excitement. 3 min love pumps are not going to cut it long term.
Self control. Self discipline.
You're such a horny fucker you can't wait? You're so animalistic that you cannot contain yourself? You cannot wait? You cannot have restraint? You just have to HAVE TO cum?
I write this as a divorcee having fallen for the trap.
you seem to be very jaded. what do i need to wait for ? what trap? it's of no harm to my wife. she's well aware and we live a life that involves pure honesty about everything which i believe would cure many if not all of the world's problems
You do not understand the power of the dark side. Some things dig in deep ..... the power exchange and dynamic was unlike anything else. It fueled my decline.
Anything inside of bondage n discipline, domination n submission, sadism n masochism and exhibitionism n voyeurism is from the devil. It's like trying heroin inside of marriage .... it's safe. No it's not. Not at all. I speak from experience not from a place of ignorance
Porn existed before feminism. There was plenty of 19th century snuff literature for the fellas. And brothels have been in existence since forever. Besides if feminism were the real issue then why do so many men in traditional churches with submissive wives who put out still looking at porn? Reality is they don’t love their wives and are cheaters at heart. Ditto with women looking at porn.
Nahhh there has never been an abundance of pornography in all of history like what we have now. It has increased with the decline of society, but porn is not the problem. Neither is the “cheating men” who don’t “love their wives” lol.
Glad you have a nice husband and/or father. My “Christian” father was a porn addict who lied to my mom about himself to entrap her in marriage thinking marrying would solve his porn addiction. It did not. He was a faithless cheater his whole life. Escalated to real affairs with women and I swear he was seeing prostitutes. So yes from my life experience where my mom was definitely NOT a feminist, my father had zero excuse. As another poster said here, it’s about instant gratification, no matter who gets hurt. Supreme selfishness is at work.
And for those of you here justifying your porn addictions here, why don’t you just cut to the chase and visit a brothel for the real thing? You might as well. It’s no different. Those are human beings you’re objectifying made in God’s image.
I can only imagine how screwed up someone would have to be to want to be a porn star. You should be helping these women and men out of these “careers” by sharing Jesus, not using them up more.
The antidote to pornography is life of prayer and yearning to return to days of innocence. When we were young and the world was full of hope and the person you do that w you should cherish to the marrow of their bones.
All the godless whores in the world can't touch what it means to love and be loved by the same and for the rest of this life.
Sounds like your mom destroyed your opinion of your dad by saying he had an addiction. I wonder, did she tell you how good she was in bed? Or did she just feel that it was justified to share only his flaws and private information. Sounds like she raised you to be a man hater after all, sad 🤔
Edit: Ahh a handshake account. Where did you come from to get here little handshake? Why don’t you head back to your safe space where your emotional rants make people feel guilty. Cause it’s not here