I like to think of lesbian relationships as therapy.

Theres a saying in the community, "second dates a uhaul" https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/U-Haul_lesbian

The earnestness to get intona relationship is the yearning for imtimacy while negating the natural path in front of them.

The reason is because a part of their mind is literally PTSDd when it thinks about touching a male. Hard to get a lady boner in that circumstance. Females dont give them that instant repulsion and they carry out their intamacy needs. Its a defense mechanism enabled by truamatic emotions that prevent the logical mind from fixing itself.

Have you ever seen a dog that liked males more than females or vice versa? Its like that. Get burnt by hot stove dont touch hot stove again.