This explains my ex so much. If he did something shitty I would say "How would you feel if I did the same thing that you just did?" He would say, "Yeah but you wouldn't do that!" and I would say, "Let's pretend I did though, how would you feel?" and he'd still say "But you wouldn't do that!"
Used to frustrate the shit out of me until I realised he's a low IQ individual.
This explains my ex so much. If he did something shitty I would say "How would you feel if I did the same thing that you just did?" He would say, "Yeah but you wouldn't do that!" and I would say, "Let's pretend I did though, how would you feel?" and he'd still say "But you wouldn't do that!" Used to frustrate the shit out of me until I realised he's a low IQ individual.
The last year I have realized that this is why I have so much trouble trying to reason with the people around me.
I don't understand the OP issue at all. I never go around rhetorically asking people if they've eaten breakfast or lunch.
But imagine if you did