Men aren't so bad. One of the biggest challenges women face today is allowing their heart to be vulnerable to the right guy. Without being vulnerable, you can't allow love in. I also had a mom stuck
with mistreatment...so it's extra hard when you see that growing up. But here I am, years later, and my imperfect man gets better every year. I'm truly rich. When a man has the Holy Spirit, he's not just accountable to you for you, he's accountable to God for you. God is always at work in both our hearts and love continues to grow. Pray God shows you what's next and he will. Signed, an-older-than-you ladypede
I canโt seem to find the right one. I dated a guy last year that was based and red pilled and handsome. He was a hard worker. I was so excited and happy. Then we were hanging out one night and talking about all kinds of things and we got on the subject of religion. He told me that believing in God is childish and stupid. He said itโs all fake. I told him how much God has helped me through things in my life and how some of those problems had seemed to supernaturally change and get better. He persisted in telling me how stupid it was so thatโs when I was like ok this isnโt going to work. Still makes me sad it didnโt work out bc he was fun, but I just couldnโt overlook that. So now Iโm back to square one again for what feels like the hundredth time
You made the right decision. The thing about waiting for the right guy is, you never know how far out the wait is until the wait is over! Ironically, I told God I was tired of dating and wasn't gonna do it anymore... I met my husband right after that. God is funny.
Men aren't so bad. One of the biggest challenges women face today is allowing their heart to be vulnerable to the right guy. Without being vulnerable, you can't allow love in. I also had a mom stuck with mistreatment...so it's extra hard when you see that growing up. But here I am, years later, and my imperfect man gets better every year. I'm truly rich. When a man has the Holy Spirit, he's not just accountable to you for you, he's accountable to God for you. God is always at work in both our hearts and love continues to grow. Pray God shows you what's next and he will. Signed, an-older-than-you ladypede
I canโt seem to find the right one. I dated a guy last year that was based and red pilled and handsome. He was a hard worker. I was so excited and happy. Then we were hanging out one night and talking about all kinds of things and we got on the subject of religion. He told me that believing in God is childish and stupid. He said itโs all fake. I told him how much God has helped me through things in my life and how some of those problems had seemed to supernaturally change and get better. He persisted in telling me how stupid it was so thatโs when I was like ok this isnโt going to work. Still makes me sad it didnโt work out bc he was fun, but I just couldnโt overlook that. So now Iโm back to square one again for what feels like the hundredth time
You made the right decision. The thing about waiting for the right guy is, you never know how far out the wait is until the wait is over! Ironically, I told God I was tired of dating and wasn't gonna do it anymore... I met my husband right after that. God is funny.