They have to see the lies for themselves, and get angry on their own that they were lied to. But you presenting evidence now is arguing and hardening their stance. Be glad you succeeded in some important ways. Rule of conflict avoidance: don't argue, don't belittle, and don't agree. I know the last sounds counter intuitive but it keeps you free.
They have to see the lies for themselves, and get angry on their own that they were lied to. But you presenting evidence now is arguing and hardening their stance. Be glad you succeeded in some important ways. Rule of conflict avoidance: don't argue, don't belittle, and don't agree. I know the last sounds counter intuitive but it keeps you free.