I just don’t think people are being honest with themselves. “I have no opinion on your sexual proclivities or behavioral choices, however, I would demand you keep them completely hidden from view and never speak of them in public” is not a rational position, and that’s why the left is able to exploit it. As soon as you concede “you have no problem with it”, you’ve immediately undermined your position of keeping it hidden from society. All leftists have to do is say, “If you have no problem with it, then why do you care?” And now you’ve logically fucked yourself into a losing argument.