Well I'll try to explain. Believe it or not, we have the same emotional framework that you have. You might fall in love with a woman - you like her personality, you like that she's soft and nurturing and kind, you like that she looks good to you. When you're making the life choice to be with her, you're not exactly focused on the mechanics and sloppy, messy biology of how you're going to rail her on your wedding night.

Same with us. Quality gay relationships are about emotional fulfillment just like straight ones are. Everything else is incidental. The only difference is that we can't form those relationships with women.