We're starting the vetting process for adoption agencies. We are looking at embryo adoption vs other options. No IVF, and have tried IUI as well as natural remedies. We're still trying of course, but ready to pursue other options. Anyone have advice?
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What’s the issue? One or both of you? You say no IVF, but is that with just your own eggs?
More info on your current timeline and problems please.
We think one, the female. Have concieved several times but miscarriages. Age is a factor too, 38/40
Ok, you are miles ahead of many if you can conceive. Look into Dr Kiltz in upstate NY. He preaches the keto diet and has a regimen once you are pregnant that includes things like naltrexone, levothyroxine, and many other things to reduce inflammation and make carrying your baby to term a reality.
He does a “fireside chat” from his living room on social media. I think he can help you, but you must be willing to cut out most sugar and follow what he says.
Good luck, I will say a prayer for you.
I'm sad to hear that. Been there, done that, bought the T-shirt. Give your wife as much time and space to heal after a miscarriage as you would after a birth. You aren't alone. I had my youngest at a few years older than that. Best surprise I have ever gotten, literally! Make sure she takes a good prenatal vitamin, exercises regularly, and eats healthily. Folate or Folic Acid is essential for those who want to become moms and new moms. Pray for her and yourself, and the Lord's will on this.
I had my last child at 38. I lost the ability to have children at the age of 43, so age is a factor.
Before having my last child, we were trying & I had a miscarriage at 37. But then, finally had my girl at 38. It was 15 years ago, but I think I remember using something that tracked when I was ovulating & that helped me to have my daughter.
My eggs were too old at 38-40. I had 3 miscarriages with ivf early on and from the fragmentation of my other embryos that didn't make it to day 5 it told the story that my eggs just weren't genetically sound at that age anymore. It happens alot. They don't tell you this when you are young and make it seem like you can have a baby for most women at that age. It just isn't true. Best years are 18 to 28. I prayed for 20 years. I followed advice and relaxed. I tried all the herbs and acupuncture and cycling. I did not know about iodine maybe that will work. We did clomid drugs and 6 rounds of ivf. We had surgeries for cysts and septum and endo. We used eggs from a fertility clinic.
There is an amazing book called “It starts with the egg”. Many women were able to conceive naturally following the protocol from this book. Also, look into red light therapy. There was research from Japan and Scandinavia proving that infra red light can help women get pregnant, sometimes in completely hopeless cases. Good luck to you and your wife!
Don't answer here -- but here are some things to consider:
Y'all cleansing?
Flushing out old stuff?
Seems like babies want to come live there but the terrain is not hospitable. The "baby's room" isn't welcoming.
A lot of people are using MMS / chlorine dioxide to clean their systems out. There's a telegram channel where they discuss it and other methods of cleansing: https://t.me/Alexia_IcenhowerPosts. Lots of good info.
Have you BOTH done parasite cleanses?
And while cleansing, use a condom so you don't deposit the stuff you cleaned out of yourself right back into the baby's room.
And keep it a secret until you are at the 4-month mark. If you've got evil people around you they can curse the pregnancy.
What are you eating? Overweight or healthy? Excess weight, excess fat stores all sorts of toxins, some of which are military-lab grade.
Are you jabbed?
Do you spend time around the jabbed? That stuff is contagious to the second or third degree of casual contact.
Is there an Rh factor incompatibility?
Is the mattress in the "baby's room" lumpy? Excess fibrin? Look into systemic enzymes to break that stuff down.
Do you keep your cell phone in your pants pocket? Take it out, dude, and put it somewhere else -- you're frying your swimmers.
Same for your wife. Watch what you nuke with that thing.
Put the seat down on the toilet, then flush with closed lid. That keeps germs, parasites, and other uglies from being aerosolized and landing on your toothbrush.
Best of luck.
Edit: clarification