I am a firm believer in what works for you, do you. Hubby did cook for me breakfast on Sundays,30 years ago. We would pick who would win football games. Hubby said to make it interesting, loser had to cook breakfast. I cook all the time from scratch, so, it didn't matter to me and told him it wouldn't be fair to him IF I lost because I always cook. We would pick every Saturday for NFL games, I would beat him every week, so much so, he started getting aprons, spatulas, etc for Christmas gifts! His friends teased him constantly too. After a few years, he quit betting me and he hasn't cooked since! LOL. Sounds to me you are treating your wife like the queen she is! I bet she does things for you that make you feel special. My hubby fills up the gas tank in my car. I cannot remember the year I put gas in my car. Wishing you and your wife happy days and wonderful nights! What works for you is awesome, what works for my husband and I is awesome! Wishing such happiness to all here.