He is the Servant King. He leads by lifting us up and showing us the example to live by.

You are correct in your assessment. Even Mathew 25:31 agrees with you and dispels the ritual of accepting Christ into your heart. If anything, all you need to do is be a decent person. Treat your fellow man with some dignity and respect.

"I am the Way, the Truth and the Light. No one comes to the Father except through me." "Do not judged least ye be judged." It's His call. That's it. There is no affirmative one way or the other. At the end of the day HE decides. Not any mortal man. This ritual crap popular at revivals and pray the gay away camps obviously means nothing when most of the converts move on after a week. And what's worse is the people who excuse that with, "Oh well, guess they weren't chosen."

Aside from people we can point to in the cabal who have done evil EVIL things, you are playing with fire if you are wishing damnation on other non-believers. I choose to carry myself with the hope that EVERYONE is worthy of forgiveness in the end and if God is a Just God He will judge just and righteously based on what's in your heart and the life you led. Again, if wishing damnation on your fellow debt slave is on your heart well... I hope and pray that by the time the big day arrives, that you have moved on from such terrible feelings.

All I will say with certainty is that when judgement day comes... don't lie.