We can bicker about the Freemasonry issue or how oversexed Smith was, trying to get it on with other men's wives and calling it the "blessings of Jacob." Regardless, "Mormon archaeology" is an oxymoron. Not a single sword, not even a coin can be produced to be evidence that anything in the Book of Mormon is true. All you have is the Egyptian Scroll of the Dead that Smith passed off as the Book of Abraham, and the Kinderhook Plates which were fabrications made to trap him in a lie.

And I'm not saying this to be a jerk; I'm saying it because I care about you. However leaving the cult is not such an easy task, since they will pit your own family against you.