My partner has a business that will be difficult to rebuild when we move cities. If we moved now and ANYTHING went wrong ... we'd be FUCKED.
And while I am a risk taker and to me that sounds like "okay, it's a risk but this is important let's make it happen" ... he is not this way, he's a newly awakened libfuckretard and while he doesn't think any of the brainwashed shit anymore, he still thinks LIKE he does.
Like anyone coming out of a cult, it might take a few YEARS for them to be capable of rational thought regularly and automatically. Right now he's just at the stage where he knows he was brainwashed and he even knows the facts of what really happened. But getting him to see he's still thinking the same WAY he was before, can sometimes be a real challenge - a challenge that frankly will be the ultimate success or downfall of our relationship.
So we're just saving our pennies and taking our time to decide what new city we'd most likely really like.
He's rooting for Austin. I get it. It's hip. Lots of music stuff which is his business, he's a piano teacher.
I'm thinking Houston or maybe Memphis or Nashville. I'm not totally opposed to Austin, at the end of the day it's still Texas, but it also doesn't make any fucking sense to move TO a city that's not super different than the one I'm trying to get away from.
Why are you still living there? I just escaped Spokane last year. I can't imagine tolerating Portland AT ALL.
My partner has a business that will be difficult to rebuild when we move cities. If we moved now and ANYTHING went wrong ... we'd be FUCKED.
And while I am a risk taker and to me that sounds like "okay, it's a risk but this is important let's make it happen" ... he is not this way, he's a newly awakened libfuckretard and while he doesn't think any of the brainwashed shit anymore, he still thinks LIKE he does.
Like anyone coming out of a cult, it might take a few YEARS for them to be capable of rational thought regularly and automatically. Right now he's just at the stage where he knows he was brainwashed and he even knows the facts of what really happened. But getting him to see he's still thinking the same WAY he was before, can sometimes be a real challenge - a challenge that frankly will be the ultimate success or downfall of our relationship.
So we're just saving our pennies and taking our time to decide what new city we'd most likely really like.
He's rooting for Austin. I get it. It's hip. Lots of music stuff which is his business, he's a piano teacher.
I'm thinking Houston or maybe Memphis or Nashville. I'm not totally opposed to Austin, at the end of the day it's still Texas, but it also doesn't make any fucking sense to move TO a city that's not super different than the one I'm trying to get away from.
Austin is just as bad. Same vibe.
I moved to College Station Texas 2 hours from all those big cities. Barely any masks here. Traffic is great.
I would take spokane over portland everytime. The inland empire is excellent as long as you avoid downtown spokane and cda