Man, to all the fundies on here - there can in fact be a happy medium between "no sex until marriage" (HEY POOR HEY POOR YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE POOR ANYMORE! JESUS IS HERE! etc) and total slut.
Anyone who wants to wait until marriage, probably hasn't had sex with a virgin. And, I will posit, everything else could be just right but if it turns out you have different ideas here, being stuck for life isn't a great situation. Sexual chemistry "working" or not is a thing just like every other aspect of a relationship.
If you are in the "had sex with one person your whole life and it's great" camp - far out, super happy for you.
Man, to all the fundies on here - there can in fact be a happy medium between "no sex until marriage" (HEY POOR HEY POOR YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE POOR ANYMORE! JESUS IS HERE! etc) and total slut.
Anyone who wants to wait until marriage, probably hasn't had sex with a virgin. And, I will posit, everything else could be just right but if it turns out you have different ideas here, being stuck for life isn't a great situation. Sexual chemistry "working" or not is a thing just like every other aspect of a relationship.
If you are in the "had sex with one person your whole life and it's great" camp - far out, super happy for you.
Just to tag on to the other two great replies: Itβs funny you mention Jesus in this post- sex before marriage is mentioned in the Bibleβ¦