One question that deserves asking, is why there aren't an equal number of white male/black female relationships? One may argue that this simply represents differences in how men are more dominant in the courting process, exerting preferences. But the fact that this bias exists, at the very least points to an agenda other than love (with exceptions as you point out).

All you have to do these days is to view a few social media videos uploaded by younger women, to see that the programming has been successful in altering their perceptions...