So the wife can be the bread winner, raise the children, be the mother and father, help with homework, cook and clean and also take care of the yard and repairs of the house?

That was me most of our marriage.

Did not plan on being the man and the woman, too.

It sucked.

I'm out shoveling snow while my lazy-ass husband was snoring in bed.

I'm up before 6 am getting the kids ready for school, making sure they have homework and lunch, driving them there, then coming home to start my 40-hour a week job.

While he slept until noon or even 1 in the afternoon.

And bragged about how little money he earned!

I thought I had married a man from a good family.

Found out too late I married a "chick." A bitch.

Forgive me. Needed to rant.