So grateful that I found this community which led me to finding God, because without that I dont know how I would have gotten through today.
First I found out my cat passed away, which already hurt...but then minutes after that, my grandfather ive taken care of for 12 years took his last breath and I lost him too. The only thing that kept me from shattering was knowing hes been suffering for a long time and now that suffering is over. I really wanted to numb the pain with a bottle - but i went to an AA meeting instead.
It still doesnt feel real. 😔
Edit - just want to add since several people have already said get another cat - we have other cats, 3 actually, and 1 is with me now (the brother of the one that passed actually) so getting another one isn't really what I need. But thank you for the suggestion.
I am so sorry for all your losses--it sounds like you felt so much love for your Grandfather and will be missing his love. I know how hard it is to lose family and pets--it's heartbreaking. I am praying that you will feel God's comfort and love, and you will be surrounded with family and friends who understand. Stay with those AA meetings and church too! We are all praying for you--blessings and comfort.