I agree it is pretty lame to ascribe every bad event to God punishing us. Think of it this way: God allows Satan to tempt us. He gives him some leeway and allows different actions, which He intends to bring us closer to Him. People in trouble usually call out to God for help. He is getting your attention, since you are ignoring him. That's ignorance. But, when bad things happen to good people, the good or should I say, godly people accept it as God's will. I like to think of these things as tests. If we react by shaking our fist at God, we have failed the test. If we accept it, we have an opportunity for spiritual growth, through drawing closer to God. The development of the virtues is the path to holiness for humans.