My wife and I searched different local churches for 5 years. We've exhausted all within 30 miles. The only thing we said we would not accept, hands down, was a church that focused as much on tithings as they did the Bible. 1 church had a 1.5 hr long service. 1hr of it was the church band playing music, 10 min of follow up on last week's financials and reminded to pay tithings, which followed that sermon. Now, we self educate through reading passages out loud to each other, and having discussion time to come to our own conclusions. No church has ever lifted me like this has. I don't need to sing hymnals or progressive Christian rock to send praises to the Lord. And I give my 10% back, just ask the community I work with. It's not money to me, but it is to them since they don't have to spend it.

Try an LDS Church. You'll like that one.