I tend to react by praising people who go on about criminal drumpf.
Random examples: How wonderful to find someone who cares about politicians who commit CRIMES!!! Then I let my praise set in and their good feels become real. Its like making sure the fish took the bait hook before tugging on the line.
Then I move on to PRETENDING that they already are who I want them to be. Also I' may talk about who THEY are as if they're some other person I'm joking about that they join with me in gently giggling about. This distances them from themselves.
Example? We care about CRIMES committed by rich and powerful people. I love people who are fair and who care. But can you believe that they're actually people who don't really care about the crimes? They just care about hurting others and use a crime as an excuse to be mean.
Thank goodness were not like that.
Never go fast. Good feels matter. Seeds take time to Germinate and won't unless there's good feels soil.
Btw, people have been pavlov dog trained to be triggered into a TDS brain shut down by cue words like Trump. Consequently, I avoid triggering cue words and try to find non triggering alternatives. Former president. Previous president. Previous administration. Or Ill use a pejorative, endearingly. Personally, I love Drumpf and say it with great love. Transforming their hate word into a cute nickname can help create a bridge.
Perhaps get a book on persuasion basics. "How to Win, Bigly" by Scott Adams, covers basic techniques using examples of what Trumps done. Bte, he considers Trump one of the greatest persuaders of all time. Scott helped me understand the importance of the pacing technique. Most people who try and fail to reach others, skip pacig. Hence they fail..
Bottom line,:Good feels matter. Facts don't. Unless they're meaningfully connected to good feels.
I tend to react by praising people who go on about criminal drumpf.
Random examples: How wonderful to find someone who cares about politicians who commit CRIMES!!! Then I let my praise set in and their good feels become real. Its like making sure the fish took the bait hook before tugging on the line.
Then I move on to PRETENDING that they already are who I want them to be. Also I' may talk about who THEY are as if they're some other person I'm joking about that they join with me in gently giggling about. This distances them from themselves.
Example? We care about CRIMES committed by rich and powerful people. I love people who are fair and who care. But can you believe that they're actually people who don't really care about the crimes? They just care about hurting others and use a crime as an excuse to be mean.
Thank goodness were not like that.
Never go fast. Good feels matter. Seeds take time to Germinate and won't unless there's good feels soil.
Btw, people have been pavlov dog trained to be triggered into a TDS brain shut down by cue words like Trump. Consequently, I avoid triggering cue words and try to find non triggering alternatives. Former president. Previous president. Previous administration. Or Ill use a pejorative, endearingly. Personally, I love Drumpf and say it with great love. Transforming their hate word into a cute nickname can help create a bridge.
Perhaps get a book on persuasion basics. "How to Win, Bigly" by Scott Adams, covers basic techniques using examples of what Trumps done. Bte, he considers Trump one of the greatest persuaders of all time. Scott helped me understand the importance of the pacing technique. Most people who try and fail to reach others, skip pacig. Hence they fail..
Bottom line,:Good feels matter. Facts don't. Unless they're meaningfully connected to good feels.
This is very clever. I like the way you can postpone your own satisfaction in order to do this, I must remember this approach.