The same thing happened to me! Thought I was doing everything right. He was the "boy next door", did chores, had a job and truck. Once we got married it was like a switch flipped. He quit his job, played video games all day, and refused to lift a finger. He later admitted he wanted a lifestyle of being "taken care of". We divorced long ago. He's almost 40 and lives with his Mom, she takes care of him now and he still doesn't work.
The same thing happened to me! Thought I was doing everything right. He was the "boy next door", did chores, had a job and truck. Once we got married it was like a switch flipped. He quit his job, played video games all day, and refused to lift a finger. He later admitted he wanted a lifestyle of being "taken care of". We divorced long ago. He's almost 40 and lives with his Mom, she takes care of him now and he still doesn't work.