Sometimes nerds also don't tend to get out and go places that share their interests. I get checked out by a lot of women at nerdy places, and they're always enthusiastic about talking about our shared interests. But turns out a lot of women do like beardsmen who take care of their beards and smell nice too.
I think this is also a problem most people run into nowadays in the world of digital socialization. We end up very segmented and are either working or interacting online, and while meaningful friendships and relationships can come from those interactions, you're not really zeroing in on shared interests all the time.
Now, granted as a nerd myself a lot of the people who share my interests end up being leftists...so that does introduce an additional minefield.
Sometimes nerds also don't tend to get out and go places that share their interests. I get checked out by a lot of women at nerdy places, and they're always enthusiastic about talking about our shared interests. But turns out a lot of women do like beardsmen who take care of their beards and smell nice too.
I think this is also a problem most people run into nowadays in the world of digital socialization. We end up very segmented and are either working or interacting online, and while meaningful friendships and relationships can come from those interactions, you're not really zeroing in on shared interests all the time.
Now, granted as a nerd myself a lot of the people who share my interests end up being leftists...so that does introduce an additional minefield.