Find a new in person AA group. It will be much better for you that way. Avoid these lunatics at all costs.

I hate the invasion into women's spaces by transwomen, we have not had that issue up where I live. The one person I met years ago, and who had great sobriety, I guess transitioned in the years since. He keeps himself at the gay meetings, not the women's meeting, as it should be. I am not surprised at the selfishness, my opinion is that many of these people are narcissistic, and they get a lot of the supply and attention that they need by being trans. I've never seen one who appears as a regular female, you know, everyday female, they are always dressed like they are going to a drag show and have uber make up on. Most of the women around here are very natural, little makeup and regular hair, we don't dress up like we are going to the opera or the red carpet. We clean up nice, lol, for the special occasion. Bless you on your sobriety, it's the best way to be!