Yes, it is very sad and it is okay to mourn the loss or injury of people we love ...or at least call family...it's such a dichotomy that we also rejoice that we are saved from this...at least for the moment...they really won't ever give up. The only way to stop them is to kill them, I believe. I am very eagerly awaiting for justice to swing its' scythe...but this is just one small battle we are fighting, so we must stay strong to continue fighting.