In my personal life, my normie friends (including my spouse) are all conservative. They are not extreme in the least, and they are generally careful to not reveal themselves to others until they're certain it's safe to do so. More likely a by-product of being red in a blue state. My based friend since kindergarten lives in a red state now and could give two f's about what the radicals back home think of him when he comes to visit. I wish my normie friends would follow his example.