I ended a 5 year relationship and engagement. I told him I feared it would cause miscarriages and I didn’t want to sign up for a lifetime of sadness trying to conceive. I asked him how he would handle it if I lost our baby because of a shot they made us take to participate in society. He agreed at first but the pressure of work and his family made him switch his stance. I left.
When I started dating again I went on eHarmony and filled out a long questionnaire on who I was and what I wanted. If a guy responded all be it conservative, if vaxxed it was a hard pass.
You have to be selective with what a you put in your body as well as who you share yours with. That’s not new.
It definitely is different for me because I moved as well. I moved somewhere knowing the likely hood I was getting like minded people was on my side. As far as it being a question in the app it wasn’t but it does ask a lot of questions about your beliefs on children, morals, politics. When someone that was very conservative told me outright he was getting vaxxed he told me in a “hey just so you know I’m doing this don’t know how you feel about it” I told him fundamentally I think we disagree there and it better we don’t start something up we know doesn’t have the opportunity for longevity.
Don’t let the shiny new (old lol) opportunities sway you because the attention is new. Think how the “nice girl” is probably a sheep pushover and the more time you spent with her and hearing her POV of the world would likely drive you mad!
It’s true lol. I haven’t let anyone go around and jab me with just anything my whole life. Not just this vax mess. Hahaha
My mom once called one of my friends a Petri dish and it has stuck with me. Being selective with who you sleep with based on a number of requirements isn’t a bad concept. Just add pure blood to the list. Hell, wearing a smaller sized jeans than me has been on my list since I’ve lived amongst hipsters. The list is long and there are many “no-no’s”
No but someone was forthcoming that they were getting vaxxed before our first date. Told him we probably didn’t align as well as we thought because I have strong convictions against it. No hard feelings, didn’t waste time or money on the date.
I ended a 5 year relationship and engagement. I told him I feared it would cause miscarriages and I didn’t want to sign up for a lifetime of sadness trying to conceive. I asked him how he would handle it if I lost our baby because of a shot they made us take to participate in society. He agreed at first but the pressure of work and his family made him switch his stance. I left.
When I started dating again I went on eHarmony and filled out a long questionnaire on who I was and what I wanted. If a guy responded all be it conservative, if vaxxed it was a hard pass.
You have to be selective with what a you put in your body as well as who you share yours with. That’s not new.
It definitely is different for me because I moved as well. I moved somewhere knowing the likely hood I was getting like minded people was on my side. As far as it being a question in the app it wasn’t but it does ask a lot of questions about your beliefs on children, morals, politics. When someone that was very conservative told me outright he was getting vaxxed he told me in a “hey just so you know I’m doing this don’t know how you feel about it” I told him fundamentally I think we disagree there and it better we don’t start something up we know doesn’t have the opportunity for longevity.
Don’t let the shiny new (old lol) opportunities sway you because the attention is new. Think how the “nice girl” is probably a sheep pushover and the more time you spent with her and hearing her POV of the world would likely drive you mad!
Lol!
It’s true lol. I haven’t let anyone go around and jab me with just anything my whole life. Not just this vax mess. Hahaha
My mom once called one of my friends a Petri dish and it has stuck with me. Being selective with who you sleep with based on a number of requirements isn’t a bad concept. Just add pure blood to the list. Hell, wearing a smaller sized jeans than me has been on my list since I’ve lived amongst hipsters. The list is long and there are many “no-no’s”
Good luck to you. There are still good men around.
Is that really a question on these dating apps? Vaccinated Yes or No? Is it CV vaxxx or vaxxx in general?
No but someone was forthcoming that they were getting vaxxed before our first date. Told him we probably didn’t align as well as we thought because I have strong convictions against it. No hard feelings, didn’t waste time or money on the date.