33 is still super young though. There are people in their 50s, 60s, 70s still waiting for their partner. At a certain point it gets hard to tell them to reject each person they meet for not being perfectly aligned with their values. And it’s always easier to say that when you’ve already found your person at such a young age, while still young enough to have kids. What do you tell the single 70-year-old who finally meets someone? Reject her because she’s too liberal?
Fair enough, but does the op, who is considering a girl who "loves Disney, smokes weed, and is tatted up" sound like he's +50 or more likely in his 20s? More often than not, the people worried about never finding the one are young.
33 is still super young though. There are people in their 50s, 60s, 70s still waiting for their partner. At a certain point it gets hard to tell them to reject each person they meet for not being perfectly aligned with their values. And it’s always easier to say that when you’ve already found your person at such a young age, while still young enough to have kids. What do you tell the single 70-year-old who finally meets someone? Reject her because she’s too liberal?
Fair enough, but does the op, who is considering a girl who "loves Disney, smokes weed, and is tatted up" sound like he's +50 or more likely in his 20s? More often than not, the people worried about never finding the one are young.