two things to address

one - like many things, we'll likely never know the ground truth. We could find a memo saying "park it there and open the valves to salt the earth" or we could find a memo saying "the destination changed, hold for new instructions"

Both could just as easily be disinformation now. It only matters what you choose to believe.

two - remember what they said about DJT.

liberals take him literally, but not seriously. conservatives take him seriously, but not literally.

You should consider applying that to everything in your life.

You seem fixated on the literal, which may be a mistake

there are no coincidences

You should be considering whether this is one big coincidence or if there is foul play.

Previously, weak-minded liberals would claim occam's razor for everything. Every bad scenario was just one big set of random occurrences that no one could have predicted.

Maybe, just maybe, some of them are not only predictable, but planned.

But just like liberals mistake with DJT, maybe don't take the literal definition of no coincidences so literally, rather take seriously the notion that things may not be coincidences.