You know it's kind of amazing how mankind was able to manage through real suffering: wars, famine, devastation, etc etc, for thousands of years, without hiring 'childcare'.
Even if your story is true, there is always a way. Move back with family for the duration of the child's early formative years, scale back, change lifestyles, you name it.
You just CHOSE to place important on $ instead of children. No judgment, but it's important to 1. recognize what this is and 2. take responsibility.
You know it's kind of amazing how mankind was able to manage through real suffering: wars, famine, devastation, etc etc, for thousands of years, without hiring 'childcare'.
Even if your story is true, there is always a way. Move back with family for the duration of the child's early formative years, scale back, change lifestyles, you name it.
You just CHOSE to place important on $ instead of children. No judgment, but it's important to 1. recognize what this is and 2. take responsibility.