Very succinct. When I was going through inferility, I made it a part of my personality. It was more than a descriptor. I was an infertile. I was consumed by the perceived difference and anger of wanting what others had.

Since then, and it has been nearly a decade, I have seen how I let my mental health become consumed by my plight to have a child. I was emotional and that is why I lived in that tiresome headspace for too long to much detriment. The people he describes live that way and that's why they're miserable.