Didn’t cheat on her, commit dv or anything like that but I messed up pretty bad and my engagement is on the rocks now. I am so upset with myself that I haven’t ate in two days and it’s one of those things where my words don’t matter at the moment so I just feel powerless because nothing in the immediate will fix it. Only time and action will help it. I have made a plan of action I just hope she gives me the chance so I can weather this storm.
I don’t want to go into the details here but if you could pray for me I would appreciate it.
Good analysis. In a marriage there will definitely be serious screw up moments eventually on both sides, and they need to be forgivable. The time to find out what's unforgivable is before marriage. Is this level of unforgivable something that might come up again? I'm praying some angel gives both of you a little counseling.