I know many of us in here have had to navigate many, many difficult conversations with family, friends, coworkers, etc. Creating this thread in hopes that people will give some insight into how they navigate these.
My formula is to always work from a place of love, to question, and to never allow myself to be pulled into a state of anger. Once things devolve into that path, it makes it harder to move forward. Anger is also caused by fear and insecurity, which we don’t have if we’re speaking from the truth.
What are your thoughts and best practice approaches?
Always first seek God for solutions to troublesome situations. The best answer is always to avoid arguments altogether. Observe and learn who your audience is. If you do this, most arguments can be avoided. Don't think you are going to change someone else's mind or 'educate' someone. It's a big mistake. Hubris and pride dominate the landscape. Concerning coworkers, there's no sense in hanging knives above your head at the place that provides the income you and your family depend on. Politics, religion, sports, etc. are not the tasks and requirements of your employment. Avoid them.
‘Blood is thicker than water’ is short for the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb. It means the opposite of how people use it today. Your family is by blood. That blood of your family you share should be representative of the blood of the covenant and the salvation that came from it. Don't let the water of the womb dominate the relationship of family through worldly arguments.
Right. The hard part is is when you know you have a better way, but the delusion is so strong in another that they refuse to consider or even acknowledge your point of view. That’s the most painful part for me at least.
As you mentioned, important we stay grounded in asking God for guidance first and foremost. If we do that, the rest falls into place.
Insightful...