For those who aren't biologists: chromosomes definitively determine the gender of the individual. There is no debate of this point possible. It's just raw naked scientific fact, and it doesn't give a fuck about your feelings or twisted sex fantasies.
XX = female
XY = male
That's literally the end of the story.
NOTHING you can ever do can alter your chromosomal makeup. Every single cell of your body is still male if you're an XY. For your own sanity, what little of it there is left: you need to learn to accept and love yourself for who you are, instead of living a delusional lie and forcing your lie, selfishly and cruelly, onto everyone else.
Ever hear of enjoying sex fantasies in private? Give it a try.
Normal folks: You have no need or obligation to ever use any pronouns at all.
Never. They are always optional parts of speech. You can simply use the person's name, the "noun" for which the pronoun is intended as a substitute.
None of us gets to deny anyone else their chosen NAME. That one term, you do get the right to choose for yourself. But not your pronoun too. (Asserting a right does not actually confer that right.)
If John changes his name to Julie, then that's become hisher Julie's NAME. I'll call Julie by Julie's chosen name, but not Julie's chosen pronouns. If Julie hates Julie's biological pronouns and I don't care to force the issue, I won't use any pronoun for Julie. And I won't call Julie John, because that's not Julie's name any more; same as if Miss Small marries Mr. Brown and takes the name Mrs. Brown, I'm not still calling her Miss Small. That would be rude.
Just say NO to pronouns whenever you wish. It's always up to YOU.
Think of it this way, imagine you have a plan to build a two storey house. You build the first storey. The bricks do not arrive on time for the second storey then the roofers come along any install the roof and the stair fitters do the best they can.
What have you built? A house or a bungalow?
Chromosomes are just a plan. It usually works out.
Incidentally, everyone, as far as I know, has a full set of "female" chromosomes.
All these people have XY chromosomes.
It was intended to be a house. Sure, something went wrong and it's now kind of a bungalow, more a less another dwelling. Just like when a woman can't reproduce. She's missing the "upstairs." She's still a woman. What if in your example, they decided to put wings on the side of the house and a cockpit upstairs is it now an airplane? That's a more apt comparison imo
Men and women are very different. Not just physically, either.
And to discount the physical differences as a result of them being minor, as you'd expect of two members of the same species might I add, is a worthless distinction.
When working within the frame of "human" we are very physically different. Just because we could work within the frame of "all species of all variations and differences" doesn't change that. And we should be working within the "human" frame, since that is what we are and what we are comparing/contrasting.
For those who aren't biologists: chromosomes definitively determine the gender of the individual. There is no debate of this point possible. It's just raw naked scientific fact, and it doesn't give a fuck about your feelings or twisted sex fantasies.
XX = female
XY = male
That's literally the end of the story.
NOTHING you can ever do can alter your chromosomal makeup. Every single cell of your body is still male if you're an XY. For your own sanity, what little of it there is left: you need to learn to accept and love yourself for who you are, instead of living a delusional lie and forcing your lie, selfishly and cruelly, onto everyone else.
Ever hear of enjoying sex fantasies in private? Give it a try.
Normal folks: You have no need or obligation to ever use any pronouns at all.
Never. They are always optional parts of speech. You can simply use the person's name, the "noun" for which the pronoun is intended as a substitute.
None of us gets to deny anyone else their chosen NAME. That one term, you do get the right to choose for yourself. But not your pronoun too. (Asserting a right does not actually confer that right.)
If John changes his name to Julie, then that's become
hisherJulie's NAME. I'll call Julie by Julie's chosen name, but not Julie's chosen pronouns. If Julie hates Julie's biological pronouns and I don't care to force the issue, I won't use any pronoun for Julie. And I won't call Julie John, because that's not Julie's name any more; same as if Miss Small marries Mr. Brown and takes the name Mrs. Brown, I'm not still calling her Miss Small. That would be rude.Just say NO to pronouns whenever you wish. It's always up to YOU.
What you say is not entirely true.
Think of it this way, imagine you have a plan to build a two storey house. You build the first storey. The bricks do not arrive on time for the second storey then the roofers come along any install the roof and the stair fitters do the best they can.
What have you built? A house or a bungalow?
Chromosomes are just a plan. It usually works out. Incidentally, everyone, as far as I know, has a full set of "female" chromosomes. All these people have XY chromosomes.
It was intended to be a house. Sure, something went wrong and it's now kind of a bungalow, more a less another dwelling. Just like when a woman can't reproduce. She's missing the "upstairs." She's still a woman. What if in your example, they decided to put wings on the side of the house and a cockpit upstairs is it now an airplane? That's a more apt comparison imo
Stopped reading at men and women are pretty much the same. You think you sound smart but you really don't
Yes, HUMAN BEINGS have all those physical characteristics but they are definitely different from each other.
Men and women are very different. Not just physically, either.
And to discount the physical differences as a result of them being minor, as you'd expect of two members of the same species might I add, is a worthless distinction.
When working within the frame of "human" we are very physically different. Just because we could work within the frame of "all species of all variations and differences" doesn't change that. And we should be working within the "human" frame, since that is what we are and what we are comparing/contrasting.