Welcome to General Chat - GAW Community Area
This General Chat area started off as a place for people to talk about things that are off topic, however it has quickly evolved into a community and has become an integral part of the GAW experience for many of us.
Based on its evolving needs and plenty of user feedback, we are trying to bring some order and institute some rules. Please make sure you read these rules and participate in the spirit of this community.
Rules for General Chat
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Be respectful to each other. This is of utmost importance, and comments may be removed if deemed not respectful.
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Avoid long drawn out arguments. This should be a place to relax, not to waste your time needlessly.
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Personal anecdotes, puzzles, cute pics/clips - everything welcome
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Please do not spam at the top level. If you have a lot to post each day, try and post them all together in one top level comment
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Try keep things light. If you are bringing in deep stuff, try not to go overboard.
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Things that are clearly on-topic for this board should be posted as a separate post and not here (except if you are new and still getting the feel of this place)
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If you find people violating these rules, deport them rather than start a argument here.
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Feel free to give feedback as these rules are expected to keep evoloving
In short, imagine this thread to be a local community hall where we all gather and chat daily. Please be respectful to others in the same way
See if there is a way you can protect your money so she doesn't get it. Even putting it into a trust for your son might be an option?? (For when he turns 18 or 21. Or, possibly, (as someone else said) gift it to your brother and father with the understanding that they would regift it back later. I just don't know if that would be considered fraud and trying to hide assets from her.
At any rate, why not try for custody of your son? Her business has failed (and frankly, qualifying for a mere 10K credit line should have been a cake walk for someone running a business for the time she did.) I'd spend my energy there, trying to get full custody of him. Showing you can provide a good and stable home at your brother's house.
I'm sorry you're going through this. Please find a solid, bible believing church and get stuck in there. It will be a great source of fellowship, wisdom and support. All the best.