“Love bombing” is a real thing, though, and not just something a guy can do. I’ve experienced it first hand, and someone else in my family went through something that’s looking like it was that, too. The big difference between love bombing and the real deal is in the former situation the person usually is trying to entrench themselves in your life in order to leech off of you in some way, while putting up the facade that everything is amazing and you’re deeply in love.

I’m someone who tends to fall somewhat hard and fast in relationships, ironically despite being seen like some emotionless robot by some girls from my past… And I get it. Coming on way too strong too easily tends to be a red flag more often than not.

That said, I hate this and could see people’s exes posting on these simply out of spite, a la “MeToo” / “Believe all women”.