Redefining marriage to mean two dudes jamming their dicks into each other’s assholes while pretending they are going steady was the start. Before that, the gays had to pretend they were normal, responsible, respectable people, identical to straights in all ways except for their shithole fetish. It kept their degeneracy on a leash. Once they were taken off that leash, their true nature was revealed, and they went slobbering and humping after the kids.