Basically, she is about to wreck her life because she's very likely 1.) Very smart. Smart girls don't relate well to the common dingbats. 2.) afraid.... afraid there isn't a true, kind, loving male in her future that will cherish her and only her; and that won't hurt her. It's a very common fear, especially when girls everywhere are choosing to become objectified by males, and most males (emphasize most, not all) are just fine with that arrangement. That's a wise thing to avoid, but taking counsel from your fears is not wise.
Tell her this girl grew up to serve in the military, do hard brainy jobs mostly done by guys, marry a great guy, and have two babies to love. Girls that had a little tomboy in them make better moms of males. I hope she'll take this before God and pray about it. In Him we have hope.
Basically, she is about to wreck her life because she's very likely 1.) Very smart. Smart girls don't relate well to the common dingbats. 2.) afraid.... afraid there isn't a true, kind, loving male in her future that will cherish her and only her; and that won't hurt her. It's a very common fear, especially when girls everywhere are choosing to become objectified by males, and most males (emphasize most, not all) are just fine with that arrangement. That's a wise thing to avoid, but taking counsel from your fears is not wise.
Tell her this girl grew up to serve in the military, do hard brainy jobs mostly done by guys, marry a great guy, and have two babies to love. Girls that had a little tomboy in them make better moms of males. I hope she'll take this before God and pray about it. In Him we have hope.