The thing with these pronouns, especially in English, is that it's an attempt to control how others speak of you to other people. It's a narcissist's attempt at compelling my speech, and therefore to exert control me. It's petty and it's the exact type of thing narcissists get off to. Unfortunately for them, I despise narcs with every fiber of my being, and so I'm not inclined to do anything they say. Cope, seethe, dilate, and rope.