Well I never gained or lost friends over the clot shot...it was never an issue between friends or relatives...we stated our piece then respected the decisions made. Yes...a few paid the ultimate price...sadly...but I actually was able to influence some relatives not to continue with shots/boosters. I tried to remain a faithful friend while my best friend and her husband slowly died after the J&J and I would do that all over again in a heartbeat...but I understand that others have had different experiences. I think so many people are brainwashed (physically and mentally induced) to a point they really can't think straight or logically...it is all very sad...