She's 22 and has never had a boyfriend. I know that doesn't sound like a big deal but it lead her to have a really bad outlook on life. She's pretty, in shape, occasionally sweet and a virgin but feels like she'll never get the opportunity to be a wife because men won't commit to her. Now she started going to bars and wants to start hooking up with guys and having casual sex. She said she sees herself being alone forever and living with a bunch of animals and only having female friends.
It hurts because I know she always wanted to be in a relationship but her past experiences kind of soured that. Now she's going down a path I think a lot of us recognize. It's just sad. Relations are so broken between the sexes now.
She doesn't realize how young 22 is. There is plenty of time for a fulfilling life.
Praying for your friend.
She's come to think it's impossible. She also has a lot of insecurities like having a bigger nose and blonde hair (she thinks guys only think brunettes are wife material for some reason)
Question: How much time does she spend on social media / the internet?
About a regular amount I'd say
I guess the amount is somewhat irrelevant because even a small amount can allow one to get a skewed view of the world.
We're praying for her, Fren. I really hope she can see the light and turn away from this. She's looking for fulfillment in the same way that people seek substance abuse to mask problems in their own lives. Casual sex is not going to make her feel better in the long run. And if she hangs around these environments and these men long enough, it might even end VERY badly for her.
Maybe she should fix those things first. I’ve seen nose jobs transform women into the most beautiful you’ve ever seen - it just has to be done by a great doctor that makes natural results. And hair dye cost $20, she doesn’t even need to bleach.