I have seen some bishops encourage their own members with this, though I have never seen this happen with non members who ask for help.
It depends on each bishop and the situation. There was a single mother I had been helping rebuild a home with a collapsed roof. I asked the bishop that presided over her area & he told me they were a member he had not seen for almost 10 years. He had their elders quorum show up that weekend with multiple tools to help get the roof repaired & take care of some other issues in the home. He also provided her with food for their family for the next couple years with only the hope that she could feel our Savior's love through the service given. I have also seen some other bishops be more judgemental.
My father served a mission in Idaho, brought a Mexican immigrated family (late 60s) to the church as investigators looking to see if this was for them. The bishop told him that he should not bring Mexicans back ever again. After my father & his mission companion discussed this with the stake president (think of them as the manager of each bishop, who is supposed to care for & guide each ward during their time of service) he was called up the following day & asked by the stake president to make sure that he brought that family back & that he would be leading the meetings the following week with a new bishop that would be called to serve that ward.
Also there was a time was also a time where I saw a family that seemed to desperately need help & the bishop refused it. Later I found out that the father was cheating on our friend's mom & once that father had left the home the Bishop started helping the family. The kids assumed that the bishop had essentially given that dad an option of getting back in line with the teachings of Jesus Christ (ie cling only to your wife) or there would be no help. We really don't know why he refused while the dad was in the home & abusive, though that theory made sense to us teenagers at the time. It very well could have been that guy refused to pay tithing.
That said, we are all human. Some are petty & judgemental. try to change their paradigm with loving example. Though I cannot force anyone to change. It pains my heart when I see problems, that others who are able to help, refuse because those who need help are not "up to snuff" in their opinion.
I have seen some bishops encourage their own members with this, though I have never seen this happen with non members who ask for help.
It depends on each bishop and the situation. There was a single mother I had been helping rebuild a home with a collapsed roof. I asked the bishop that presided over her area & he told me they were a member he had not seen for almost 10 years. He had their elders quorum show up that weekend with multiple tools to help get the roof repaired & take care of some other issues in the home. He also provided her with food for their family for the next couple years with only the hope that she could feel our Savior's love through the service given. I have also seen some other bishops be more judgemental.
My father served a mission in Idaho, brought a Mexican immigrated family (late 60s) to the church as investigators looking to see if this was for them. The bishop told him that he should not bring Mexicans back ever again. After my father & his mission companion discussed this with the stake president (think of them as the manager of each bishop, who is supposed to care for & guide each ward during their time of service) he was called up the following day & asked by the stake president to make sure that he brought that family back & that he would be leading the meetings the following week with a new bishop that would be called to serve that ward.
Also there was a time was also a time where I saw a family that seemed to desperately need help & the bishop refused it. Later I found out that the father was cheating on our friend's mom & once that father had left the home the Bishop started helping the family. The kids assumed that the bishop had essentially given that dad an option of getting back in line with the teachings of Jesus Christ (ie cling only to your wife) or there would be no help. We really don't know why he refused while the dad was in the home & abusive, though that theory made sense to us teenagers at the time. It very well could have been that guy refused to pay tithing.
That said, we are all human. Some are petty & judgemental. try to change their paradigm with loving example. Though I cannot force anyone to change. It pains my heart when I see problems, that others who are able to help, refuse because those who need help are not "up to snuff" in their opinion.