yes, its quite tedious.

option A:

expect 100 normal people contort their own reality, to conform to the expectations of 1 delusional person?

option B :

expect 1 delusional person to contort their "reality", to conform to the expectations of 100 normal people.

look, nobody gives a rip if you want to dress up like a woman,

but when you actually start invading actual womens safe spaces,

then theres a problem,

and the problem is you.