Welcome to General Chat - GAW Community Area
This General Chat area started off as a place for people to talk about things that are off topic, however it has quickly evolved into a community and has become an integral part of the GAW experience for many of us.
Based on its evolving needs and plenty of user feedback, we are trying to bring some order and institute some rules. Please make sure you read these rules and participate in the spirit of this community.
Rules for General Chat
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Be respectful to each other. This is of utmost importance, and comments may be removed if deemed not respectful.
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Avoid long drawn out arguments. This should be a place to relax, not to waste your time needlessly.
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Personal anecdotes, puzzles, cute pics/clips - everything welcome
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Please do not spam at the top level. If you have a lot to post each day, try and post them all together in one top level comment
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Try keep things light. If you are bringing in deep stuff, try not to go overboard.
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Things that are clearly on-topic for this board should be posted as a separate post and not here (except if you are new and still getting the feel of this place)
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If you find people violating these rules, deport them rather than start a argument here.
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Feel free to give feedback as these rules are expected to keep evolving
In short, imagine this thread to be a local community hall where we all gather and chat daily. Please be respectful to others in the same way
Tomorrow is our 20 year anniversary. Quite obviously what she wants most of all is divorce papers. Prayers for God's will be done, frens. Not wasting your time with speshole poest dedicated to muhh calamity. I'm a failure as a human being and most of all a husband, not worth the shitpost. prayers for God's will is all I want frens. Fuck life but I'm going to keep carrying on like a robot regardless. Cuz fuck suicide, i'll keep taking up this cross, just like my Master. GOD'S WILL BE DONE
Well HSTA I’m sure you have been an awful human being, at some point in your life. But so have I, and every one here, whether they admit to it or not. That’s the first step is to acknowledge it, then change it. You are the only one that can make the change, but only with Gods help. It might be a long hard road to save your marriage, but anything worth having is a long hard fight. Divorce is awful, been there , done that and got the Tshirt. Make it your goal to save your marriage. I’m cheering for you 🙏🏻👍
It's my only goal
You’ll be fine, I know you will.
Begin to try to see yourself as the Lord sees you, worthy. His beloved son! A masterpiece.
I am sorry for all you are going through and feeling, your sentiments are similar to someone near and dear to me.
Dear Lord, thank you for another day that was not promised but was given. Please clearly show HSTA how he can better follow you today. In Jesus' name, Amen.
That last two sentences do not do a good job of convincing me what a horrible person you are.
The path is long and winding and you seem well aware of it. Indeed, God's will be done.
So I'm reading this as you're projecting it's quite obvious to you that's what she wants.
Also reading this as that's not what you want.
After 20 years you have a better idea than some rando on GAW. Not everything works out, but 20 years seems worth trying to, especially keeping God's will in mind.
God's peace and blessings be with you.
Never giving up on my family. Other than Jesus Christ they are all i have. Thank you fren, may God bless you as well.
If you are willing to admit that you are a failure as a husband, then you are far more advanced than many other guys who get divorced. Being humble enough to admit this means that you may still have a chance, unless you want the divorce as well.