Welcome to General Chat - GAW Community Area
This General Chat area started off as a place for people to talk about things that are off topic, however it has quickly evolved into a community and has become an integral part of the GAW experience for many of us.
Based on its evolving needs and plenty of user feedback, we are trying to bring some order and institute some rules. Please make sure you read these rules and participate in the spirit of this community.
Rules for General Chat
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Be respectful to each other. This is of utmost importance, and comments may be removed if deemed not respectful.
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Avoid long drawn out arguments. This should be a place to relax, not to waste your time needlessly.
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Personal anecdotes, puzzles, cute pics/clips - everything welcome
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Please do not spam at the top level. If you have a lot to post each day, try and post them all together in one top level comment
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Try keep things light. If you are bringing in deep stuff, try not to go overboard.
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Things that are clearly on-topic for this board should be posted as a separate post and not here (except if you are new and still getting the feel of this place)
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If you find people violating these rules, deport them rather than start a argument here.
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Feel free to give feedback as these rules are expected to keep evolving
In short, imagine this thread to be a local community hall where we all gather and chat daily. Please be respectful to others in the same way
Thank you so much. I’m the type that will be strong for everyone and break down later. I’m glad she’s at peace. She had a blessed and wonderful life.
Fren I just want you to know that Jesus doesn't want you to carry that weight it's ok to be weak for in our weakness he is made strong. I understand you wanna be there as other people process things but just don't take so much weight on that you don't allow yourself to process things. Love you and praying for you. Sorry for your loss
Thanks fren for the advice and prayers. You are so right. It’s very hard for me to attempt changing. I’ve been this way so long. It’s not in my DNA to sit back and not be the rock for others. I get it from my grandma. I have a loving and supportive husband and he’ll make sure I’m taking care of myself.
Yes I completely understand that feeling and glad you have your husband to watch out for you.
Sometimes people need to see others weaknesses so they can relate and you can walk through it with them, if that makes sense.
Love you sis
It does make sense. Love you brow
Yes I understand understand. you’re a strong, patriot woman, of course you’ll be there for others first. Just give yourself some time when you finally do need it for yourself. Praying for you