You have my full sympathy, friend. My wife and I are 100% on the same page, politically, and I can't imagine the strain it must be causing both of you to go through this.
The only advice I can offer is, try hard not to get swept away by the passions of the moment. Put all your energy into being as strictly logical and rational as you can. I know that will be extremely hard, but try to balance that against the suffering that fracturing a 20-year marriage will entail.
You have my full sympathy, friend. My wife and I are 100% on the same page, politically, and I can't imagine the strain it must be causing both of you to go through this.
The only advice I can offer is, try hard not to get swept away by the passions of the moment. Put all your energy into being as strictly logical and rational as you can. I know that will be extremely hard, but try to balance that against the suffering that fracturing a 20-year marriage will entail.