dude I'm gonna be real, never call your spouses parents names. I think an apology should be in order. this isnt something to ruin your marriage over dude. prob gonna take sometime to return to normal but as charged as we are about Trump and wanting to win this. Don't break apart your personal life over it. This is what the globalists want to happen anyway, don't break your family over something so trivial. remember 4-6% will be lost forever. your wife parents are part of that. don't bother
Man, tell her you’re sorry and that you fuck up by marrying into this group of assholes oh, dumb fucking assholes then ask her if she’d like to have some angry make up sex. Never work for me.
Just remember as you start calling people "retards"...
They are also brainwashed victims. Surely you can find it in yourself to show some compassion for those who have been deceived. You don't need to compromise your principles, but I think your wife may have a point that some softening of your attitude is in order. You can pity your inlaws without denigrating them.
Always remember that in several years, this will all be over and the animosity will be gone. Pretend you are there already and rid yourself of your emotional biases. Will you be proud then of how you handled this?
Before jumping straight to divorce, a counseling session may be in order.
That's almost like asking for a divorce yourself. Don't know where you're coming from mentally, or your history together, but unless you actually want a divorce, that kind of talk is usually out-of-bounds. Throwing away 20 years shouldn't be done lightly. A lot of us put up with junk from loved ones who are still brainwashed. Won't be too much longer now
Get a Dog their appreciate more. For example, lock your wife and the dog in the trunk of your car, spent 30 minutes at high speeds and turns stop, open the trunk and see who appreciates you more the wife or the dog
Do you want a divorce as well? Do you think she's serious, or does she do things like this regularly?
Whatever the answer, it's just doesn't reflect well on you that you called her parents that. They might very well be retards, but you don't have to say it. Perhaps a bit more tact would be a good idea.
Tell her to not let the door hit her in the a** on her way out. If my wife said she would vote for Biden, I would toss all her clothes in her car, drive her to her mother’s in the car I paid for, dump the clothes in the yard and drive back home.
I think that your wife has lost her temper while defending her parents and if you wait coolly, she'll back down. I have been in this position and you can DM me if you like.
Women always complain men don’t show their feeling enough and don’t communicate but here he is putting it all out there and you want him to stop both? His wife should agree with him that her parents are stupid or she is very naïve. His tone or delivery may be off but after 20 yrs she should if she has paid attention know how he is
It means, the delivery and timing was Not Appropriate.
What does it mean to have tact?
a keen sense of what to say or do to avoid giving offense; skill in dealing with difficult or delicate situations. 2. a keen sense of what is appropriate.
You should re-read what I wrote the first time - pause when you read me saying "Even though I agree with you..."
And pause again when you read me saying "Even though I agree heavily with your feelings."
Tact.
And besides that - yeah, according to the Bible, it Is the responsibility of the Husband to lead and protect his marriage.
Is expressing "Your parents are retards" in front of his wife's parents Leading or Protecting their marriage?
No.
Their marriage was not under threat. There was no reason to say that.
The message was delivered out of Pride - His Pride, at the Expense of protection of his marriage.
As someone going through a NASTY divorce probably try some sort of saving it but if one fight leads to that she may just be looking for an excuse and your best bet is GTFO and don't look back especially if yall don't reconcile quickly.
Also in this day and age never get married again. Literally no benefit and a ton of downside. Even if you get a fair shot in court there's financial and other considerations that just make it so not worth even considering. Live your like king.
You have my full sympathy, friend. My wife and I are 100% on the same page, politically, and I can't imagine the strain it must be causing both of you to go through this.
The only advice I can offer is, try hard not to get swept away by the passions of the moment. Put all your energy into being as strictly logical and rational as you can. I know that will be extremely hard, but try to balance that against the suffering that fracturing a 20-year marriage will entail.
I have to admit, those ignorant people who remain ignorant because they are lazy or their favorite line "they don't really care" at this point seem pretty retarted to me. I am pretty much in the same boat as far as the retarded in laws go, except they admit they have always voted Democrat, and my wife agrees they are retarted.
You have two imperfect people running for president and when the media demonize one, it becomes hard to figure it out. As you age, your world can become smaller especially once you quit working and your exposure is less to lots of different people and opinions.
The truth will come out someday. This is also a spiritual war and do not fall into the trap and end your relationship over this. This will pass. Apologize.
dude I'm gonna be real, never call your spouses parents names. I think an apology should be in order. this isnt something to ruin your marriage over dude. prob gonna take sometime to return to normal but as charged as we are about Trump and wanting to win this. Don't break apart your personal life over it. This is what the globalists want to happen anyway, don't break your family over something so trivial. remember 4-6% will be lost forever. your wife parents are part of that. don't bother
You're right but Nobody in the world gets a divorce for calling their parents retards. No way!.
You could if you did it every day for a month or two.
It’s just a matter of how much effort you are willing to put in to accomplish the goal
Remember
If at first you don’t succeed. Try and try again
u/#kek
Especially if they only get their info from TV! Let them be. Nothing can stop what's coming so why jeopardize your marriage!
Bye, bye
Man, tell her you’re sorry and that you fuck up by marrying into this group of assholes oh, dumb fucking assholes then ask her if she’d like to have some angry make up sex. Never work for me.
Awesome, you basically doubled the amount of time your food storage will last! And you'll free up closest space for more ammo.
Now that’s a “glass is half full” attitude! Haha
Buy life insurance on all of them
She sounds retarded as well. After everything and all these recent years, she is living in a different reality.
Damn you cracked me up !
Bye Felicia
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Well , the wife and her parents do sound Vaxed might be cheaper to wait?
Just remember as you start calling people "retards"...
They are also brainwashed victims. Surely you can find it in yourself to show some compassion for those who have been deceived. You don't need to compromise your principles, but I think your wife may have a point that some softening of your attitude is in order. You can pity your inlaws without denigrating them.
Always remember that in several years, this will all be over and the animosity will be gone. Pretend you are there already and rid yourself of your emotional biases. Will you be proud then of how you handled this?
Before jumping straight to divorce, a counseling session may be in order.
Very well said.
That's almost like asking for a divorce yourself. Don't know where you're coming from mentally, or your history together, but unless you actually want a divorce, that kind of talk is usually out-of-bounds. Throwing away 20 years shouldn't be done lightly. A lot of us put up with junk from loved ones who are still brainwashed. Won't be too much longer now
When I have a crappy employee say "I should quit this place". If your response isn't "Resignation accepted" then you are doing it wrong.
She gave you a gift. Seize it!
Divorce her and pick better next time.
Get a Dog their appreciate more. For example, lock your wife and the dog in the trunk of your car, spent 30 minutes at high speeds and turns stop, open the trunk and see who appreciates you more the wife or the dog
hahahaha, gonna try that
Do you want a divorce as well? Do you think she's serious, or does she do things like this regularly?
Whatever the answer, it's just doesn't reflect well on you that you called her parents that. They might very well be retards, but you don't have to say it. Perhaps a bit more tact would be a good idea.
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
I would go through with it.
She's already gone,most likely with "Tyrone".
Let her go and free yourself.
Tell her to not let the door hit her in the a** on her way out. If my wife said she would vote for Biden, I would toss all her clothes in her car, drive her to her mother’s in the car I paid for, dump the clothes in the yard and drive back home.
When I have a crappy employee say "I should quit this place". If your response isn't "Resignation accepted" then you are doing it wrong.
She gave you a gift. Seize it!
Never forget that you are not related to your spouse. But your spouse IS related to their parents.
Take the deal. She sounds vaccinated.
Your wife is being retarded.
Well, waste no time then.
I think that your wife has lost her temper while defending her parents and if you wait coolly, she'll back down. I have been in this position and you can DM me if you like.
they are retards.
she’s been planning this for a long time. guaranteed. being rude is not the real reason.
Calling someone retarded who isn't shouldn't make anyone mad, ironically, calling someone retarded who actually is retarded also makes people mad.
That's retarded.
Are you going to carry her thru what's coming?
Honorable....... uggggg. Parents sound brainwashed and like they got a bunch of boosters.
I'm not sure what you expected.
Even though I agree with you - that's a pretty rude thing to do to your wife in front of her parents.
IMO - apologize and own that you made a dumb mistake.
When you got married, you made a covenant between You, Your Wife and God.
After God, your Wife is your highest responsibility and commitment on this Earth.
If you did something to jeopardize that, you need to take responsibility for it and make your best effort to repair.
In God's reality, no political debate or opinion is above your marriage.
Even though I agree heavily with your feelings - as a married man here, I am urging you to do your Husband duty and put your feelings aside.
Women always complain men don’t show their feeling enough and don’t communicate but here he is putting it all out there and you want him to stop both? His wife should agree with him that her parents are stupid or she is very naïve. His tone or delivery may be off but after 20 yrs she should if she has paid attention know how he is
Maybe you don't understand what "Rude" means.
It doesn't mean Untrue.
It doesn't mean "shut up".
It means, the delivery and timing was Not Appropriate.
What does it mean to have tact?
You should re-read what I wrote the first time - pause when you read me saying "Even though I agree with you..."
And pause again when you read me saying "Even though I agree heavily with your feelings."
Tact.
And besides that - yeah, according to the Bible, it Is the responsibility of the Husband to lead and protect his marriage.
Is expressing "Your parents are retards" in front of his wife's parents Leading or Protecting their marriage?
No.
Their marriage was not under threat. There was no reason to say that.
The message was delivered out of Pride - His Pride, at the Expense of protection of his marriage.
I'm not debating with you.
Have a good day.
you want volunteers, not hostages. dismiss her, take half her stuff, move on, move up, move forward. you were always the prize. Never forget this.
As someone going through a NASTY divorce probably try some sort of saving it but if one fight leads to that she may just be looking for an excuse and your best bet is GTFO and don't look back especially if yall don't reconcile quickly.
Also in this day and age never get married again. Literally no benefit and a ton of downside. Even if you get a fair shot in court there's financial and other considerations that just make it so not worth even considering. Live your like king.
You have my full sympathy, friend. My wife and I are 100% on the same page, politically, and I can't imagine the strain it must be causing both of you to go through this.
The only advice I can offer is, try hard not to get swept away by the passions of the moment. Put all your energy into being as strictly logical and rational as you can. I know that will be extremely hard, but try to balance that against the suffering that fracturing a 20-year marriage will entail.
The 19th amendment and its consequences have been a disaster america
You wanna blow her mind show her the illuminati card game. If she isn't too retarded to understand it.
Illuminati card game?
Every major event for the last 20 years in that game created in 1996!
Steven Jackson Games.
It was made a long time ago, and they updated a few versions.
Also did Hacker too.
He was one of the original Fighting Fantasy writers.
Lots of cool memories of my childhood right there.
You don't say that about your wife's parents right in front of them and likely under their roof even if it's true.
I have to admit, those ignorant people who remain ignorant because they are lazy or their favorite line "they don't really care" at this point seem pretty retarted to me. I am pretty much in the same boat as far as the retarded in laws go, except they admit they have always voted Democrat, and my wife agrees they are retarted.
TDS.. MKUltra…
Kill your Television… save your wife
You have two imperfect people running for president and when the media demonize one, it becomes hard to figure it out. As you age, your world can become smaller especially once you quit working and your exposure is less to lots of different people and opinions.
The truth will come out someday. This is also a spiritual war and do not fall into the trap and end your relationship over this. This will pass. Apologize.
There will be those that never see the light.