Sorry, it's just that I was a bit picked about the whole thing when I was younger so I am a bit sensitive. Especially since when I was still of child-bearing age it started to become more common for women who wanted children to just have them even if they hadn't found anybody to marry. I didn't want that, I wanted a real father for them if I was going to have them, and I guess that was seen as rather old-fashioned.
Sorry, it's just that I was a bit picked about the whole thing when I was younger so I am a bit sensitive. Especially since when I was still of child-bearing age it started to become more common for women who wanted children to just have them even if they hadn't found anybody to marry. I didn't want that, I wanted a real father for them if I was going to have them, and I guess that was seen as rather old-fashioned.