I don't know what to do anymore. I have been unemployed for six months. I have applied for hundreds of jobs and I start a part time minimum wage job soon. So I cashed out my 401k to get a car to get to said job, but that broke down 3 days later.
My family thinks I am lazy so they don't want to give me rides anymore. I tried to walk to get groceries but that's exhausting, I have four young kids we need a lot of stuff.
I built my dream home on the family farm so I have almost no bills. But I don't know what to do. I just feel hopeless. If I move to a job I would have to pay thousands more a month for rent but I am broke. My husband is deeply depressed so he definitely can't help with anything. My family wants me to kick him out and marry a rich guy but that seems like a terribly immortal thing to do.
I've always believed that when God closes a door he opens a window but I can't find a way out of this.
Prayers for you fren.
Can you give us more on your husband's depression?
Maybe it's worth making sure he's getting all his vitamins and starting him on a low dose lithium supplement ( not the same dosage that they give for bpd , but just as supplement ) For example 130 mg a day of Lithium orotate which provides 5mg of elemental lithium. It's really an essential nutrient we are low on in our diets, like magnesium, zinc, boron, iodine, so many others.
I have heard that low dose lithium helps the brain to regenerate cells in the hippocampus and therefore helps the laying down of new memories and associations which can help overwrite depression and PTSD.
I'll find some links if you need.
I am not a doctor, this isn't medical advice.
Don't let your family tell you that you aren't doing what you should in life!
Edit: another question, what's up with your car?
My husband is against taking more pills. I've tried a few things vitamin d, iodine and a few others. I garden and had him in an all home grown plant diet for a few months Then did carnivore for a few months, until I lost my job. Nothing seems to help him.
He used to play way to much video games. I got super mad and told him he has to stop, cause we are screwed, like two months ago. He got into reading and sleeps way too much.
My old car the transmission broke. The new one the electric dies randomly. The repair man can't figure out why.
Maybe it is time to tell him to leave.
Maybe that is the motivation he needs.
I did tell him to leave. I hope it's motivating. But it's what the kids need.